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Are emails as good as a phone call yet?

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Has the time arrived where an email is THE appropriate way to try to contact a parent, or at the very least, AN appropriate way to contact?  Only a few years ago, I had to call my parents when I needed to contact them, even if they had email addresses.  I could email them, but my principal wanted me to call them as well.  Are we at a point yet where I can fulfill my duty to notify a parent by ONLY sending an email?  I think that I reach less parents when I call because they are busy, unavailable, etc. as compared to the parents I do not reach with my emails.  Obviously, I should call the parent for if there is an emergency or need for IMMEDIATE contact, but for everything else, is an email sufficient?

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How often do you check your email? I check mine several times a day, so you could notify me of things by email, but I don't know too many people who are as compulsive about (my wife says addicted to ) email as I am. If the parents don't check their mailfrequently, the message may not be received in a timely manner. Besides, with email you really have no way to know if the email was read at all. I'd stick to the phone.


I know that the parents of the students I teach generally do not have email, so the phone is usually my only option.


 


 


"What the teacher is, is more important than what he teaches." - Karl Menninger

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Rate This | Posted about 1 year ago

 

I agree with Deven that it is uncertain whether or not the parent has read the email in a timley fashion.


My suggestion is to let the parents know at the beginning of the school year how you plan on communicating with them throughout the school year.  As for me, I still prefer using the phone to contact the parents, because I believe that it is more personal and a more respectful form of communication.  It is an immediate two-way conversation that most of my parents prefer.

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Although I LOVE e-mails, as they seem to be the fastestmeans of communication nowadays, I still prefer the telephone.  I like to hear the parents'voices, and explain to them further. It is difficult to validate your words, or respond quickly to a question in e-mail, as you first have to wait for the parent to respond back.  On the telephone, it is immediate.

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Thanks for the suggestions.  I guess I´m just going to have to wait a little longer for parents to be as addicted as I am to email before I can rely solely on email. 

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I prefer to get notes/messages from the parents via email and respond via voice/telephone.  It is tricky to phrase things properly in an email (unless it is a straight forward question), and misunderstandings can occur. I like to get their message in email because it is as if the note has already been written for me - I don't have to write down the name and phone number.


Children are the living messages we will send into a time we will not see. – John W. Whitehead

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Yes I have actually seen emails with a disclaimer that says something to the effect "Do not interpret this email beyond literal meanings. Inflection and tone cannot aand are not intended to be conveyed via email. any questions contact the author in person or via phone."

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Rate This | Posted 12 months ago

 

It depends on the tone.  As a teacher do you ever call parents just to say, "your child is going great!"?  It might be better to do some things over the telephone.



Though I'm not saying it's easier.  I check my e-mail at least once a day and can express my thoughts more clearly in writing.  When you're writing something important and unique I think it's better to use e-mail.  For example, if a new issue requires communicating, it's better to use e-mail to be thorough and make sure the recipiant has an archive.  OR if the issue is touchy it's best to say it in words rather than have your words misinterpreted and documented.


~ADF

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Rate This | Posted 12 months ago

 

It is important to remember, also, that emails are a legal document and may be subpoenaed.


Children are the living messages we will send into a time we will not see. – John W. Whitehead

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Rate This | Posted 12 months ago

 

 Teachers who may be concerned about what they can or can't put in an email might consider creating a set of email forms (like a form letter) that they can run by their principal. If the principal approves the "form" you can send it out and just change the address and student's name. The best type of email from teacher to parent should be short and to the point. For example, "Just wanted to tell you that Austin is doing much better. I hope he keeps up the good work." Another simple email might be, "Just wanted to mention that Austin hasn't done his homework on a regular basis. He missed 3 assignments in the past two weeks. Please speak to him about it. Thanks."

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Rate This | Posted 11 months ago

 

Emails for me are a quick check. Phone calls are more personable and makes one seem more interested in communication.

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Rate This | Posted 11 months ago

 

No, I don't believe so.  It depends on the person whether they are reached by email quicker than by telephone.

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Rate This | Posted 11 months ago

 

In the olden days (about two minutes ago) email was the in thing. Telephone was in grandma's time (oh wait, it was my time). Today, one of the best ways to get a quick message across is probably text messages to cell phones. Although you may not want to do it using your cell phone, you can send text messages from a computer to a cell phone.


Telephone is still the way to go unless a parent assures you that he or she checks their email everyday.

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Rate This | Posted 11 months ago

 

          Where I work, almost all parents are more easily reached by phone.  When I hand out the class contract at the beginning of the term, I ask parents to indicate their preference on the form, as well as the best time to call and the frequency at which they would like to hear from me (weekly, bi-weekly or monthly).  Personally, I allow parents to email me, but prefer the phone, because of the immediate and more personal dialogue through phone and the possibility of misunderstandings via email.  I perceive email as a replacement for "snail mail" or fax, rather than telephone calls and in-person communication. 

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Rate This | Posted 11 months ago

 

Same here. We have a large # of people without Internet. Usually those are the ones you need to get in touch with!

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Rate This | Posted 11 months ago

 

Emails takes a load of work from my shoulders and I prefere to use it. It's quick and I won't be stuck in any arguments with parents. But ofcourse I ask every parent what they want, emails or calls. Most of them do prefere emails though. We also have a computerized reporting system which takes a bit of responsibility away from us - if parents want an update on how their kids are doing in school, they can just log in and read for themselves.

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jeppe says ...



- if parents want an update on how their kids are doing in school, they can just log in and read for themselves.



That's awesome. I want one!

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jeppe says ...



- if parents want an update on how their kids are doing in school, they can just log in and read for themselves.



That's awesome. I want one!



It is indeed! I could record a screencast on how we do it if you wish. :)

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jeppe says ...



 


taternutz says ...



jeppe says ...



- if parents want an update on how their kids are doing in school, they can just log in and read for themselves.



That's awesome. I want one!



It is indeed! I could record a screencast on how we do it if you wish. :)



Absolutley!

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Rate This | Posted 11 months ago

 

Follow this link to see a screencast of our reporting system we have at our school in Sweden. Sorry for the bad English, i had just woken up :)


http://www.kyte.tv/ch/64826-jeppes-elearning-channel/297387-reporting-system

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Rate This | Posted 9 months ago

 

I think they are because, really, who doesnt have internet on their phone??? i think the majority of people do and they obtain access to their emails....easy as 1-2-3!


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Rate This | Posted 9 months ago

 

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I think they are because, really, who doesnt have internet on their phone??? i think the majority of people do and they obtain access to their emails....easy as 1-2-3!



You obviously do not live in Tennessee, because there are tons of people here that do not have cell phones, even computers and internet and a luxury around here.

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Rate This | Posted 8 months ago

 

Hi,


     The parents must put their best efforts in making the growth of their child. They should be helpful to child.


 


Lui


 

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Rate This | Posted 8 months ago

 

 The digital divide is alive and well in City Heights, San Diego where I work. I give mine out, and 2% use it to communicate with me.


Most parents talk to me before or after school.


Another barrier is language. I speak Spanish, but those who don't use interpreters. I need one for my Burmese child on occasion. E-mail can be as foreign as the population I teach.

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Rate This | Posted 8 months ago

 

Hi,


    In my opinion both are good, but email is better for distance. Although one can also call but being the charges high, I prefer email.


Singh

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Rate This | Posted 8 months ago

 

 So we finally meet, Singh.

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Personally, (and I was just discussing this with a friend yesterday) I have had e-mails misinterpreted by others.  I meant to be matter-of-fact in my tone, and they read it as impudent, rude or angry.  You never know how someone else is going to interpret your words.  This might happen in-person or on phone, too, but that's rare.   When you hear another person's voice you can generally 'read' their emotions, and respond accordingly.  From the other replies in this group I think you might want to spend some time "training" the parents, so they get used to the idea that you'll be communicating with them via e-mail.  Also, you might start your process by sending only good reports by e-mail, and saving the "needs help" type reports for voice.  Just some thoughts...hope they help.

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Rate This | Posted 7 months ago

 

I would be happy for any communication from my son's teacher,school policy requires a phone call or email or a note for missing work or any other issues,I get none of that,I find out on the school parents website if my son is missing work and by the time grades are posted the work is a week or more late.


So my hat is off to all you teachers who are atleast attempting to contact  the parents of your students.

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Rate This | Posted 7 months ago

 

 Dear hatesstarwars (by the way, just why DO you hate star wars?)


Have you approached the teacher(s) and asked to be communicated with? Or, if you've already done that (and the teacher(s) promised to comply but haven't) have you approached the principal/vice-principal and made a request?


I had a few parents ask me to give them weekly e-mail updates on their children (5th and 6th grade), and I was glad to do so. It took only about 20 minutes a week.


Regards,


John

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Rate This | Posted 7 months ago

 

I came across something online that said in 2009 more smartphones with Internet access will be sold than PCs. Email and text messages are catching up...quick!

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