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15 Things I Wish I'd Known Before Becoming a Teacher
Jill Hare | Editor, TheApple.com
Don’t you wish you knew the good, the bad and the ugly before you became a teacher? Find out some things to look forward to and things to avoid. Do you have something to add to the list? Please do in the comment section below or in TheApple forum.
1. Relating to every student takes research.
If you’re like me, you are decades older than your students. It takes research to figure out what prior knowledge you’re building on. Don’t just focus on what they’ve learned in school, but think about what they’ve learned outside of school. What programs do they watch on TV? What do they read for fun? What kind of music do they listen to? You can ask your students this information and more in simple survey or game. Knowing them and who they in in the context of the world today will help you connect.
2. Be prepared for anything and everything to happen on your watch.
You have to be prepared for anything to happen during school. In my first year of teaching, I got vomited on and didn’t have a change of clothes. I got the stomach bug shortly thereafter and didn’t have any medicine with me. I had to teach without power for three days during the aftermath of a hurricane. I had to stay at school with my last class one day until 4:00 in lock down while the police searched our school for an escaped convict. I’ve sewn shirts, taught with a flashlight, and written study guides out by hand when the copy machine was broken. At the time, each of these things seemed out of the norm. I learned later that “out of the norm” was the norm. Teaching is an unexpected journey that provides a great story at the end of the day. It’s better to laugh at life’s unexpectedness than to stress.
3. Student teaching may not completely prepare you for your own classroom.
Not all student teaching experiences are rosy. And even if they are, you could end up teaching a different age group, completely different grade, or school environment.
If you haven’t started teaching yet, try and choose a place that will be most like your desired job. If that’s not possible, spend time in a school observing how things will work and what you need to be prepared for.
4. What you want to teach may not be in demand when you look for a job.
Teachers are always needed, right? True…to some extent. Teachers are always needed, but what kind of teacher and where varies widely depending on area growth, retirement rate, and state budgets. The best advice I can give prospective teachers is to get a sense of the job market in your area before choosing a focus.
5. Working with parents is hard.
Teacher training doesn’t focus a lot of time on how teachers can best work with parents, but it’s a crucial part being a teacher. My first year teaching, I had a parents yell at me, cry in front of me, hit on me, and even practically stalk me on my cell phone. Setting boundaries with parents in the early years is a struggle. Some years my group of parents gave me no troubles at all, while other years seemed to be full of controversy.
Working with parents is hard, but it’s not impossible. The hardest parents for me were the ones that didn’t realize that I cared as much about the progress of their child as they did. If you can explain- with actions and words- that you are sincere in the education of their child and exhausting all avenues to help them, they’ll come around.
neil
13 days ago
10 comments
My teacher asked me if I was interested in teaching... she told me when she thought I was ready that I should start publicising and sending my CV to places I thought could use my skills and when she got contacted by other people who needed a BD teacher she started giving them my number... When we reach a certain level she also invites us to start attending didactics classes ... we do not teach beginners classes until we have gone trough beginners, intermediate and advanced levels...
That´s how it worked for me!
gifts for her
cotton2
6 months ago
10 comments
I agree w/ everything spoken... I have been teaching 4 26yrs and over time the children change and so does their views on things in life... I need 2 go back 2 my books just 2 figure out exactly what 2 do w/ them in general... I think all parents should read this also...
mdmann00
6 months ago
18 comments
To cmkluesner: What involvement do the parents/guardians have in the education of this 2nd grader? To me, that is a key question. The onus should not be on you and the school to get this child to learn--his parents have to be assisting in this endeavor. If they are not involved, then more than likely, they are not doing things at home to help you. Is the child getting any kind of counseling or other external help?
cmkluesner
6 months ago
2 comments
I work with B.D. kids. One is a 2nd grader with ODD - this child requires an incredible amount of patience from me, as well as anyone who works with him. He is disrespectful, and does not follow directions. Does anyone have advice on working with someone like this?????
mdmann00
6 months ago
18 comments
A comment on number 8: You can't earn the respect of someone who doesn't even see you as a real human being. Real human beings have faults, frailties, and most important, EMOTIONS. I have heard many teachers give the advice of not showing emotion in front of students (particularly anger) and not taking things personally, etc. This sounds like the definition of a robot to me, and I won't have any part of it. I want my students to see me as a human first and THEN as their teacher. Just last week, I displayed real anger with one of my classes because of their rude and obnoxious behavior toward me during an activity where I was trying to do something educational, interesting, and NICE for them (they were getting extra credit points from a physics game we were playing). I just left the classroom in the middle of the activity, and stood outside the door pacing back and forth trying to cool off for about 30 minutes. The room was SILENT during those 30 minutes. In a written reflective exercise the following class period, I made it clear that they were doing something that personally hurt me and I didn't appreciate being treated this way when I had done nothing to them to deserve such. There was not one word of protest about my comments, this class has been nearly angelic since then, and I am noticing that students that were more reserved and guarded before seem more open now. Two of the most problematic students have been working much better, and seem to now understand that I am doing this because I want them to be successful.
Students HAVE to see you as a human being that cares. You can not accomplish this by doing the British "stiff upper lip" shtick all of the time. It sometimes means showing your emotions.
Also, I have some issues with the concept of "being fair," because it has been my experience that adolescents have a somewhat warped sense of what "fair" means. This is something I touched upon in this reflective exercise. For example, if your students don't have a sense for the role they play in their education (i.e., they don't take any responsibility for their education), your acts of fairness will always appear unfair to them. There are some things that need to be in place BEFORE you can expect them to see your acts of fairness in the correct light. Some of these things need to come from home.
Finally, on the point by greenkelleen, I think delving into the world of your students is dangerous unless you are actually INTERESTED in those things. I have no interest in reading "Twilight," even though many of my female students are constantly talking about it. I have no interest in surfing, bodyboarding, dirtbiking, and monster trucks even though most of my male students do. Engaging in such activities to get "in" with the students is DENYING me of my own humanity. I have my own interests. I don't tell my students they should like what I like, and if asked about what they like, I will tell them I don't like those things if I don't like them. Now, if I find I share an interest with some student, that is another thing, but I'm not going to go try to pick up interests just to be part of their world. That seems just as fake as dropping some "hip lingo." How about we just be honest with them? Is that so difficult?
greenkelleen
7 months ago
2 comments
I really enjoyed the "getting to know your students" section -- but I have to say, "researching" them by asking questions, taking surveys, et cetera, will only get you so far. It is FAR better to experience some of their favorite things yourself, especially if your students are middle/high school. Go to some of the shows (we old people used to call them "concerts"), get and/or learn to use some of the tech gadgets, watch those inane TV shows they talk about all the time, go see the movies, pick up that Twilight book you see all the girls carrying, and so on.
Just learning about kids' interests without really understanding or appreciating them from the students' viewpoint doesn't really work well. If you try to drop some "hip lingo" on them, or talk about something you have very little personal experience with, those kids will spot a fake a mile away, and respect you less than if you were to be clueless!
vmora
7 months ago
2 comments
Very insightful article. I especially enjoyed point 8, where you discuss the issue of respect. I would like to add that as a student, it is also important to sense that your teacher/professor is approachable. Too often, the relationship between teacher and student is founded on superiority complex, where the student might react obediently out of fear/respect or in the alternative, rebel in an effort to regain dominance. I also enjoyed your candidness concerning the costs of classroom supplies. I had overheard this topic being discussed by teachers, but I didn't realize it was applicable to many teachers.
nanobiotechpooja
7 months ago
2 comments
awesome article :) :) :) really
teacherrevised
7 months ago
6 comments
This stuff just glosses the surface. For some real talk from real teachers, go to http://teacherrevised.org/. I've co-written a book for new teachers called Teacher, Revised: A Renegade's Guide to the World's Most Important Section. Check the 'book excerpts' link if you want to read a few sample chapters.
mothergoose27890
7 months ago
2 comments
I am going to get my teacher license and I really appreciate this article because I can learn from other teachers that have been in the business for a while. I am a sub teacher and some times the students do not take you seriously either but I just walk into the room with confindence. Thank you for the article. I will pass it on.
Mrs_Giselle
7 months ago
868 comments
I have been teaching at a private school and although a lot of the situations are the same as public schools (students vomiting on you, hard to get along parents, and all those unexpected situations, I am not very knowledgeable about the as rfrisch put it, “politics” of teaching. To quote Robin, “I wish someone had really taken the time to explain the "politics" of teaching...such as contracts, unions, teacher rights, etc.” So I say…hey Robin, what don’t you share the wealth and write an article about what you learned on these matters so all of us “clueless” can benefit from your knowledge. It will be greatly appreciated. I also like to thank the apple for providing this venue for sharing and learning. I do not know what I would have done without the Internet and computers when I started my teaching career.
dad001
7 months ago
26 comments
As someone about to become a teacher (I'm student teaching right now), I found this very helpful. I have a lot of concerns about my first year on my own, but reading articles like this and getting advice from seasoned teachers makes me more confident about what I have to look forward to.
rfrisch
7 months ago
8 comments
I wish someone had really taken the time to explain the "politics" of teaching...such as contracts, unions, teacher rights, etc. In my first year of teaching I was at a charter school, where I was not part of a union. Also, the school board consisted of a majority of teachers...which is NOT the case in public (non-charter) schools. In my 2nd year, I moved to a non-charter public school. The district's union members were upset about not having health insurance as part of their benefit package. They were talking about striking, and I was nervous. I had no idea how powerful the union could be! Our state union (Education Minnesota) is really helpful when you have a problem such as this. No professor in college ever talked to us about this subject. I think it would be a good idea to invite union representatives in to college courses to explain their job and teachers' rights. Also, invite principals or superintendents in to explain teachin contracts, pay scales, benefits, and the interview/hiring process. There is more help in that information than the assignment" Write me a detailed lesson plan for how you might teach a group of 5th grade students with 5 ELL's, 4 gifted and 3 EBD students." Come on...when I have a class like that, I hope that I will know them well enough to adapt my lessons to their needs. I need to know the SURVIVAL skills...contracts, unions, etc.