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Should Parents Share the Blame for Education Pitfalls?
If we are truly going to improve schools, we need and require increased parental participation.
It isn’t every day that we put the blame on another primary stakeholder in the learning process — the parents. For decades, we have seen moms and dads wash their hands of what happens behind the schoolhouse doors. They get their kids to school. It is up to everyone else to do the teaching and ensure the kids are learning, retaining, and applying.
That’s what makes today’s Washington Post poll so interesting. There are few that will come to the defense of DC Public Schools in general. Seven in 10 surveyed believe DC public schools are inadequate. Surprisingly, 76 percent say that parents are to blame. See the full story here.
Eduflack isn’t one who celebrates the blame game. But DC residents must be applauded for speaking truth. DCPS spends more dollars per student than most school districts in this country. They’ve implemented reform after reform, with few making a lasting impact. Teachers are run through a grinder, not knowing if they will even be paid month to month.
Over the weekend, DCPS Chancellor Michelle Rhee announced a new Saturday tutoring program to help struggling students catch up and succeed in the classroom. Of course, such programs are not mandatory. Saturday programs are optional, offering the potential for another great idea to be lost in the execution.
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If we are truly going to improve schools like those in DCPS, we need and require increased parental participation. This means more than getting parents into the schools to complain to teachers and administrators about why their kids can’t do their homework or pass the test. True parental involvement has mothers, fathers, grandparents, and such involved in the learning process. They know what’s happening in the classroom. They ensure their kids are doing their homework. They identify learning experiences in the home or in the community. They take responsibility for their kids, and hold them accountable For maximizing their school hours.
Parents are our first teachers and our most consistent ones. Small kids will pattern their words and actions after what their parents do. We read because our parents do. We do our homework because our parents prioritize it. We bring home good grades because our parents encourage it. And if they don’t, we don’t care.
Many of the problems our schools face — rising drop-out rates, limited reading and math skills, truancy, etc. — can all be attributed, in part, to parent apathy. Eduflack has done a number of focus groups with eighth and ninth graders recently on dropping out. Student after student said they wouldn’t drop out because their parents won’t let them. THat’s parental involvement. It may come in the form of carrot or stick, but it makes a difference.
Parents are key to improving our schools, improving our community, and boosting student achievement. Thankfully, citizens in our nation’s capital now recognize that. Identification is the first step. The challenge now, is for DCPS to take this data and put it into action. If we ID parent apathy as a root of DCPS problems, what do we do to boost parental involvement? Once Chancellor Rhee answers that question, she may have a winning strategy for improving the schools, engaging the public and building support and interest for what is happening in each and every schoolhouse in the District.

broadwaylady1
26 days ago
72 comments
ditto "lmayhew"...well-written.
neilkelvin
27 days ago
298 comments
Parents are the first teacher of child. I believe that parents should take interest in child's school activity but at certain limit. I think parents should not blame for education pit falls. If we keep the goal in mind, the game gets better and better!
Good luck to all of us,
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lmayhew
about 1 year ago
4 comments
We can point fingers at many different people but I believe that SOCIETY has created the problems. Society no longer requires accountablilty and accepting responsibilites. They have instilled the values of "ME" "ME" "ME".
It can be summed up in one word, respect. Until society promotes values of respect and accountability, it will only get worse. I have been in education for 37 years, the last 22 as a school counselor. I have seen the decline in the success of schools as society became more liberal. Thankfully next year will be my last year.
Bless the teachers out there in the trenches...I don't know how they do it.
toocool4school
about 1 year ago
180 comments
Parent involvement may not be possible for many families, particularly those with a single parent. Also, I think school can be a scary place for many parents that speak English as a second language, or when parents themselves had negative experiences in schooling. I do agree though that schools taking the initiative to get parents involved as much as possible will be critical to improving the situation.